Why do we feel good in the company of some people whereas some people make us uncomfortable? Well, each one of has felt this some or the other time.
It happens because of the energy field emitted by everyone of us. Also known as ‘vibes’ it draws people towards you or warn them to keep a distance.
How can we control the negative vibes and boost the positive ones? Well, our thoughts, deeds, and actions can do it.
As they say ‘action speaks louder than words’, but words can cause more harm than the action, sometimes.
Hence, what is important for everyone to spread the positive energy? When we speak, we should speak good and kind words. It will spread happiness.
The power of positivity
You can smile, express your feelings, or hug others to show the affection or appreciation. Yes, indeed, these are the pleasant ways of expressing positive feelings. However, the same effect is created by speaking kind words.
Delightful words make the surroundings cozy and comfy. Expressions of appreciation, gratitude, and thanks spread happiness around.
The more positive vibes you send, the more they are appreciated, and you get the same thing in return.
And the best part of positivity is that it does not get diminished by spreading. Rather, it gets enhanced.
It is like lighting a candle by another candle. What happens when we do that? We have two candles burning with the double illumination, making the room brighter than before. As they say, knowledge increases by sharing, so is the positivity. It also increases when you spread it.
Do not be critical or argumentative, don’t be judgmental, don’t be harsh while you express your feelings. Even while criticizing, use kind and gentle words that do not hurt others. Thus, your criticism will not be heard dismissively.
We can spread happiness by not doing anything extraordinary but just by uttering words that are kind, positive and good. It creates magic and change the life.
What is the harm caused by negative energy?
A leader who sends forth negative words, or a manager who speaks harsh words, or parents who reprimand the kids often can be a downer.
Harsh words not only spread negativity, but they invite others to feel irritated, humiliated, or depressed. A feeling of insecurity spreads around.
A person who emits negative energy via anger or criticism can be outrightly unpleasant. Others do not feel like improving their performance. In other words, it puts a stop to the growth.
The positive individuals or leaders make others feel important by their good and kind words by contrast. Their appreciation creates a positive environment around and enhances the sense of well-being.
Positive words have more impact when they are spoken with positive expressions. Sprinkling positive expressions bring warmth to the relationship.
So, let us make the world a little superior than before. Let us spread the fragrance of happiness around.
When everyone will give a contribution to it, a big change is bound to happen.
